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alpha_wolf February 5th, 2008 10:06 AM

Automatic Attraction Triggers Poll
 
I'd like to solicit some feedback from the ladies. As men, there are characteristics in a women that automatically trigger our attraction responses in our biochemistry. In my studies, I have found that there are few factors that make up feminine attractiveness on a universal level. Facial symmetry, larger eyes, plump lips. 70% hip to waist ratio. Large/proportional breasts, full, shiny hair, color contrast between eye color/hair color, height and weight ratio between golden mean. Smooth skin. Men mostly respond to visual stimuli, because in the past, these were the best indicators of genetic superiority and the chance of survival from the offspring. For women, the attraction triggers are different. I'd like to get your opinion on what you believe the "automatic" attraction triggers are. I.e. before you talk to the guy and get a sense of his frame. So, here goes the poll.

What are your top characteristics of a man that is automatically attractive to you in the first 3 minutes (See Poll above)

Multiple Choices Allowed!

flaming February 5th, 2008 11:04 AM

Re: Automatic Attraction Triggers Poll
 
there was a post about this....

tisha23 February 5th, 2008 12:31 PM

Re: Automatic Attraction Triggers Poll
 
I voted for height, the way he looks at me, the eyes as triggers but I am having a hard time seperating it. There is more to attraction for women then just the above triggers, as you mentioned, men are visual but women at least the ones who are not superficial look for more then that in a man before attraction will occur.

You can be hot as hell rich and powerful but that dosnt mean we will be attracted to you. We just think your hot.

For guys attraction occurs like this Appearance = Attraction
For women its Persona > Appearance = Attraction

So for me at least..........

Alpha personalities, its something you can see in the way he carries himself before you ever speak to them.

His confidence is a big one for me, not really his ability to "lead other men" but a guy who is comfortable with who he is. His ability to "get it done" without belittling those around him.

His treatment of those around him. Alot of people assume to be Alpha you have to be big or a tough guy. Thats not what being a alpha is. Its more of a confidence, self assurance, self respect. Those quailties come through in the way he treats the people around him. Its why I have never been big on the negging thing some guys do.(not referring to light teasing) We recognize it not as indifference or a higher value but as his lack of self assurance. The Alpha dosnt need to neg you, he knows his value and dosnt need to prove it to you because to have to prove it would lessen his value.

So if you added charisma and Alpha aura I would have voted for those.

Tisha

Gone with the Wind February 5th, 2008 02:43 PM

Re: Automatic Attraction Triggers Poll
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by alpha_wolf (Post 92296)
...In my studies, I have found that there are few factors that make up feminine attractiveness on a universal level...

height and weight ratio between golden mean...

How can you get a meaningful numerical ratio of quantities with different units?

justonce February 5th, 2008 03:20 PM

Re: Automatic Attraction Triggers Poll
 
Wow. Where to begin?

They absolutely must be intelligent and have a good sense of humor, also a good heart, treat their parents well, and not swear. And they should like cats. :D

The intensity in the way he looks at you makes me shiver!

As for physical characteristics, I always melt over a jaw line and a chiseled bone structure. Dimples are over the top hot. Oddly enough, I prefer short men, preferably 2 to 3 inches taller than me (about 5' 8" or so). There is nothing worse than hugging a guy with your face smashed into his rib cage.

justonce

phernoob February 5th, 2008 03:47 PM

Re: Automatic Attraction Triggers Poll
 
In three minutes? Most certainly sense of humor. And lately, for me, facial hair.

Carrie February 5th, 2008 03:55 PM

Re: Automatic Attraction Triggers Poll
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by tisha23 (Post 92317)

His treatment of those around him. Alot of people assume to be Alpha you have to be big or a tough guy. Thats not what being a alpha is. Its more of a confidence, self assurance, self respect. Those quailties come through in the way he treats the people around him. Its why I have never been big on the negging thing some guys do.(not referring to light teasing) We recognize it not as indifference or a higher value but as his lack of self assurance. The Alpha dosnt need to neg you, he knows his value and dosnt need to prove it to you because to have to prove it would lessen his value.

So if you added charisma and Alpha aura I would have voted for those.

Tisha

Absolutely Tisha - kindness, generosity, lifting other people up and making THEM feel valued ... most attractive qualities!

also a great sense of humor, the ability to lighten the mood in a room.

Elleshopper February 5th, 2008 04:07 PM

Re: Automatic Attraction Triggers Poll
 
Intelligence. Quiet...deep, intelligent. The way he looks at me can totally make me hot. I don't go for any specific physical qualities.

Carrie February 5th, 2008 04:33 PM

Re: Automatic Attraction Triggers Poll
 
oh, yeah! how could I leave that out! Love a man with a big brain.

tisha23 February 5th, 2008 04:53 PM

Re: Automatic Attraction Triggers Poll
 
I like guys with big ......................... :eek:





Hands, yes I was to going to say hands. There is something about a mans hands that make me melt. Not flappy big just man hands YUMM

Tisha ;)


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