PheroTalk

ComeCloser

  

29 male here from Michigan. Joined the site so I could learn what this whole pheromone thing is about, find some good ones, and hopefully get results. I'm going to be approaching women and getting some dates since I'm single now.

I haven't looked at all the offerings, but see a few that interest me.

I'd like to display confidence, trust, fun, etc. Basically someone that can be approached and the kind of person you'd like to meet. A sexual vibe is always good too.

Gone with the Wind

  

Welcome.

What is your personality like now? What kind of ladies do you like? What type of relationship are you looking for? Long term or short term?

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Gone

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Sillykitty

  

Hi and welcome to the forum!

Just a bit more info about your personality and needs, as Gone With The Wind asked, will help us make the best suggestions from you, and also help you get qualified for the $25 gift certificate .

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ComeCloser

  

I'm on the shy side, but friendly and open once I get to know someone. I'm very sexual with women once I'm sleeping with them. I become a bit of a seducer at that point. Also, very giving and complimenting.

I like smart women. Not party girls, but someone that likes to have some fun on the weekends. The rest of the time we can chill at home or do simple things like movies, park, shopping, dinner, and occasional day trip. Someone caring, supportive, not so needy but still likes giving and receiving attention. And of course, sexual.

Ultimately I'd like long term, but I'm going to be meeting many people for fun. So short term to start.

I'd like to have the supplies on hand for both though. That way I can go out to attract short term or if I know a girl I like is going to be at some social event I can try attracting long term.

Sillykitty

  

Thanks for the info!

I have a few good suggestions for you, the first being Ammo , if you can catch it in stock, the minute some is available, it gets grabbed up. Ammo will give both your confidence and your sex appeal a boost, and can be worn comfortably in any environment.

Another one I think would work for you is Instant Gentleman . With Instant Gentleman , you will be perceived as a dependable guy who can be counted on. To me, as an intelligent female, a guy who can be depended on to take care of things is a guy that I want to be around, most definitely! Instant Gentleman also gives you a bit of confidence and sexy edge.

For your shyness, Instant Openness might be useful for you. It will make you seem more approachable, and also help to get conversations started. Of course, you do have to do some of the work, you cannot just stand quietly in a corner and expect people to suddenly come up to you and start talking. It does make it much easier, though.

I hope this helps, and please ask if you have any questions!

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My current experiment: A314 on a woman?

ComeCloser

  

Thanks.

I hadn't looked at all of them yet, but my original quick thoughts made me think Instant Shine, A314 , Turn Up the Heat , and Ammo . I didn't even look at Openess or Gentlemen yet. Thanks, you made my research more difficult. No, just kidding, but I do have more to consider.

I was hoping to have a selection in hand for this Friday. What would be recommended for stealing a woman away from a guy that doesn't pay much attention to, nor gives much passion/emotion to her?

Specifically a woman that knows how amazingly great and passionate sex can be with me, and had great difficulty in giving that up, but had to due to guilt. She also loved me and was sad to leave me. Would I use something sexual to spark that wetness she's always had around me? Or something that says, "Hey, I'm the better catch." Maybe something that would make her not fear (due to temptation) being touched by me again. Don't fear loving me or sexing me again and don't fear leaving familiarity. That life without love is not the better choice.

Sillykitty

  

Thats a tough one. That sounds like a situation that will take a little time and proper planning. Pheros will not help you just snatch her away all at once, but they can help turn things around.

If you already know her and feel comfortable initiating conversation with her, then you don't need Instant Openness , for that anyway, though it would still be helpful for your general shyness.

A314 will give you a higher "social value and respect" aura. Though with someone who is already accustomed to your phero signature, it might take a few exposures for them to understand and accept your new signature. A314 can also make you seem a little intimidating, and, especially if you are using it for a romantic situation, is often best softened with something like Instant Shine or Instant Honesty .

Does she trust you? Can she confide in you? Instant Honesty is excellent to help in that department. For a woman to feel comfortable enough to take things to the next level, or to become involved in a relationship, trust is extremely important.

Which brings me back to Instant Gentleman . You didn't share much about the guy she is with now, but if he is any kind of an unreliable flake, that is a huge turn-off for most women. As I said earlier, Instant Gentleman will help to heighten her perception of you as a solid guy who can be counted on.

Remember, Rome was not built in a day. This may take a little time, but with proper planning and understanding of her needs, and what needs of hers are not being met by this other guy, you can definitely accomplish this.

Don't use "sexual" to try to get her back, if you know you guys had good sexual chemistry, that is enough for now. Work on the trust and dependability aspect, don't even think about the sex part until you are absolutely sure she is ready for it. And that includes waiting until she is sure that she does not want to be with this other guy, and actually leaves him. You don't want to put her in another "guilt" situation, that will only make things worse. Women tend to be more sensitive and feel more guilty about sex than men do.

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My current experiment: A314 on a woman?

ComeCloser

  

Thanks again (found the thanks button). I'm well aware that pheros won't grab her for me, and I know it will take time. I will be taking things slow and with careful planning, but I just wanted a little something extra in my arsenal.

I feel comfortable with her and her with me, and she definitely trusts me. Based on what you said I think some IG , IS, and a little A314 would be a good combo. Maybe some IH just because it could never hurt to have her trust me more.

Does mixing too many pheros cause clashing and/or covering up of the other pheros?

Sillykitty

  

I do think the ones I mentioned would make a great basic, beginning phero stash.

IG , IH , IS, A314 , and IO , (and definitely Ammo , if you can ever catch it in stock ) but you may not be able to afford these all at once.

Besides, I think you need to make sure they actually work for you, just start with 2 to-go sized products (which is just about what the $25 gift certificate covers), before you start to seriously investso maybe start with IG and IH (and maybe IS for a back-up).

Yes, they do work in combination, but it is extremely important that you become familiar with each product seperately on its own, and understand the effects, before mixing with others.

Steve wrote this very helpful post on the subject:

How to find your sweet spot...

There are many great combinations, and its tons of fun, once you understand how they work andf how much works for you, everyone's different.

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My current experiment: A314 on a woman?

ComeCloser

  

Yep, the plan was to get them in To-go size first. I think I'll pick up all of the main ones... IO , IG , IS, IH , Ammo , and TUTH for later. And A314 , even though it only comes in full size.

Unfortunately, Ammo is out of stock in all sizes right now.

I have a question on the amount of use I'll get out of a To-Go bottle. At 5ml, it's 1/6th the size of the full size 30ml bottles.

Under the full size Instant Shine I see it contains 15mcg per spray and a bottle is 200 sprays. So 1/6th would be about 33 sprays.

However, I read on the To-Go page... "Slightly less effective than our full size products, due to the smaller spray pattern."

So maybe it has more than 33 sprays because the spritz is smaller, but it would also mean I'd need to spray more to equal what a full size bottle gives in one spray.

So how many sprays will it have, and how many sprays should I use? Meaning, if I wanted 1 spray, is that 2 sprays with the To-Go size?

I just called the woman and set up a little shopping excursion before the birthday party. We're going to shop for my niece together for an 1.5 hours before the party.