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TheSilent1

  

Hi, I'm a newcomer to this forum. I'm a single 21 year old male. I live in the United States. I sort of just stumbled upon this website randomly but it intrigued me enough to sign up.

I'm generally a very nice, quiet person. I'm talkative around those I'm comfortable with but those are generally close friends and family members. I currently go to college but I haven't totally taken full advantage of the social scene. Infact I tend to steer clear of parties/clubs mainly due to being intimidated by so many people. Its a problem I'll probably need to confront in order to solve my real problem.

I'm having a hard time attracting women. Even as modest as I am I think its safe to say I'm atleast average looking. My problem happens to be attracting women with my personality. Being a "nice guy" has always put me in the friend zone over being someone they can date. My friend always tells me I have to be an asshole but that just aint me. I've been told I'm funny but I lose my humor around people I'm not comfortable with.

So yeah, I come here thinking maybe there is a product or two that can help me out. I don't have the resources to mix and match, use trial and error like some of you here but are there any recommendations? Thanks

falcos

  

Hi Silent1 welcome to the forum

I understand your problem really. Actually been there done that. A word of advice, being the nice guy can one day bring trouble, if you fall for someone you will probably do everything a girl wants, if she takes advantage of this there will be a point were you will suffer and you will learn the asshole way. Saying this, I already learn this but If I fall in love I tend to revert to the nice guy again. Its no easy task.

So first is you can still be a nice guy and get to meet alot of girls. Just get drunk while you cant lose yourself by other meens. When you do this try to dance with has many girls has possible. Dont know how to dance, get lessons, real dancing lessons, whatever kind you can take, all kinds of dancing if possible in the long run will pay off.

About the mones I suggest some ammo for stand alone. It gives me alot of confidence. Its the best for me for attraction.

Also you could try a combo of, IO + a314 + IJ , this is a pricey combination because of the a314 , but if you can afford it, it will pay off. Maybe the way that you can continue to be a nice guy and attract girls this way.

Other thant this, I recomend you to read PUA books. Thre is a PUA group in this forum. Just inscribe yourself and ask advice for it.

If you have any questions just ask.

Best regards

Falcos

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Katalyst

  

Welcome silent1 !

Gotta stand right behind falcos and agree with his recommendations. It is important that you also work on yourself and your own confidence and face why you get anxiety in those situations and tell yourself that you want to make a change for the better. Repeated exposure, practice and the help of mones can definitely help as i have seen them in my own life. I was often the nice guy and normally would only pursue girls who were interested in me, which luckily were quite a lot or else id have been even deeper in my troubles. I always surrounded myself with a huge friend group and interacted with a ton of people guys and gals but never was aggressive enough as always being respectable and people failed to see my interest in them even if they were attracted to me already. It definitely also helps to know womens IOI s.

The only other product that i will recommend to you because i have loved it is instant shine. You are welcome to purchase a to go of it which is just under $10 to test out, and it will make you more smiley and upbeat, social and a slight boost of confidence. If you have been told you sometimes seem unapproachable because of your demeanor then i have found it also helps very well with that.

BEst of luck and i hope you tackle your issues head on and make a change for the better! Being active in the forums here will really help out a lot and i encourage you to frequent here and share your stories and experiences as so many people here are willing to help any member!

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Wolfy

  

Welcome Silent1

I am very much like you, quiet until I open up. I almost need prodded to get started some days, but others I can smile and say Hi to everyone without a reply.

I would suggest CTTM2 for you to start with as it is a balance between IO and IH , I have used all three and found that CTTM2 is a good mix for getting people talking without just idle chatter that IO can cause, or the reserved start of IH .

As for spiking attractions, you have to decide what you like and go for it. ladies always want the Biker-x-con-Jerk type, but not all.
IJ will give you that, but I would guess that your Good guy side will win over more hearts than trying to be something you are not.

It is amazing how much just some Instant Shine and a smile will do for softening your approach and get people talking to you as you seem to have a way of brightening a room.

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Mickaelia

  

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