I have traveled a good bit around the USA and outside the borders. The one thing I have to say is that the southeastern people are more (NICE) than "most" places in the USA? Right?

I think so and would love to hear if others think so too!!

I live in the northern part of USA and we are TOO rude for sure. It's like move it or lose it and don't give two sh++s who we s++t on or say sh+t too!!
I just seen a sweetheart I have knew a few years back and she moved down south and said the same, that people would go out of their way for her and anyone.

I seen the same when down south.

Maybe we could take some notes from those people and spread the LOVE around?

What are the best books/articles about body language? Thanks.

Anyone on here on chat?:confused:

I'm looking for things that you recommend mostly I don't mean pheromones although thats also welcome.

Anything that would help me out or make life better doesn't matter what it is.

Thanks in advance

Check them out: Google

Have a fantastic birthday !!!


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Love ya

Tish

I usually tune away when the National Proletariat Radio (NPR) stops playing music. But Monday I was driving home and heard the introduction to this clip.

http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story...=129528196

If your interested in further study, I would recommend
http://www.amazon.com/Gods-Brain-Lionel-...1616141646






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So I'm watching tv and I see a commercial for Old Spice. Now let's face it, Old Spice has had a reputation for being....well old. And honestly for smellling old too. It's become a cliche that Old Spice smells like "old guy". So I started thinking about how Old Spice has attempted to rebrand themselves to compete against Axe and it would seem by using an add campaign inspired by Dos Equise's "Most Interesting Man in the World" campaign....and failed miserably. I mean let's face it, Axe's "too good to be true" promises of "The Axe Effect" captured the attention of teen to early 20 something males across the country with adds featuring relatively average looking men being mauled by extremely attractive women (usually in groups) in acts of sexual aggression that let's be honest, if the image were portrayed with the genders reversed they'd be boycotted for glorifying a sex crime.

But to get back in line, Dos Equise featured the Most Interesting Man in the World, bearded and wearing a suit to convey maturity, style and sophistication (very A314). And while most of the adds feature him sitting at a table, the center of attention with two to three attractive women that appear to be half his age, when he speaks you're given the impression that he's addressing other men. His accomplishments seem to be for for his own personal enjoyment rather than to impress which makes his image as a man all the more impressive.

This brings us to the Old Spice rebranding campaign. First I've sampled the products, deoderants, body wash, body sprays etc and to be honest they're not that bad. It's a definate improvement over the old "this shit smells like grandpa" scent they used for decades. But the repackaging just comes off like they want to be Axe REALLY REALLY badly. "Swagger", "After Hours", "Showtime" all featuring the scent name in it's own unique font/logo just like Axe. To compound the lack of originality their new "Old Spice Man" spokeman feels like he's supposed to be cut from the same cloth as "The Most Interesting Man In The World". But he's not. First of all they begin the commercials with the image of an attractive and well built man....ok you definately got the attention of everyone that DOESN'T buy your products. And have you seen the way this guy stands? Mannquins look more natural and relaxed, he really looks like he's TRYING HARD to look buff. Nevermind being shirtless without a valid reason to be shirtless gives off an approval seeking vibe in and of itself. He doesn't even address the men. He addresses the women (who rarely buy mens products) and he goes on describing acts and images that fall totally in line with acts that would be done by low value, approval seeking beta's....you know, the kind of guy every woman SAYS she wants but in reality doesn't respond to. Let's see, this is a man that will bake her cake, in a kitchen he built for her with his own hands.
YouTube- Old Spice | Questions He'll take her on picnics in rowboats,
YouTube- Old Spice | Boat sailing trips and give her tickets to whatever opera, symphony, ballet, or Broadway Show she happens to like and shower her with expensive sparkly things.
YouTube- Old Spice | The Man Your Man Could Smell Like All the while talking about himself with an exaggerated Barry White voice and an obviously forced pseudo stud posture. The message is aimed at the wrong target, and conveys the message that men should be approval seeking TRY HARDS that will promise to spoil and pamper women with unoriginal attempts at "romance". Ironic that the message seems to be one taken a little too seriously by Old Spice....be unoriginal and steal idea's from Axe and Dose Equise, and be approval seeking by conveying the message to women that men should be approval seeking.

Sad really, the attempt COULD have been something good but the desperation is just too obvious.

YouTube- Justin Timberlake - What Goes Around...Comes Around
what they are saying, in the middle of videos,
please write what they are saying in the conversations.
00:28
about
3:29

all of conversations please !!!!
thank youuuuuuuuuuuu

I seriously think there should be a forum button that you click when you spray Instant Jerk on. I shouldn't be making posts right now lol

I find myself very curious about this, because a lot of guys I've talked with seem to side with my reasoning when they hear me out. Actually, to be honest a recent post of Jasmin's inspired this thread/poll. I want to have some honest feedback here (guys and girls!) about the perfect breast-size. My views:

A-cup can look nice, but is too small for my standards.
B-cup is one of the most attractive sizes for breasts. My favorite!
C-cup can be very nice on the right woman. Bouncy fun!
D-cup is asking for trouble. Nice sometimes, but yikes!

Walgreen's just let me go a few weeks ago. I got this job through an internship I had during my training as a technician. All the jobs in the past I've gotten primarily through friends and good acquaintances. I need a good layout/rubric or even perhaps a good example of a resume so I may go about applying to other pharmacies. Thanks in advance.

I finally have the money to replace my stolen laptop. But there are so many choices out there that its a bit overwhelming and I've never really been very good at this sort of thing. Plus its kind of difficult to do from my phone, which I am typing this right now with.

My last one was a Panasonic Toughbook CF-74 and I absolutely loved it. However I don't have over $3000 to get another one with. This time I need to keep it below $1000.

Ideally, my next laptop will have:

CD-ROM drive
USB ports
Windows XP or 7
Be rugged or semi-rugged
Small is okay, don't need a big giant one to have to lug around
Touch screen is cool, though not absolutely necessary

I'm sure there are other things but I can't think of them this second.

As I said, I'm kind of clueless about this kind of thing and don't want to inadvertently buy something that sucks or get ripped off or pay too much for something I could've paid less for. Also I live in a place where there are no stores nearby that sell computers, so I'll have to order whatever I decide on.

So, if any of you computer savvy guys (or girls) can help Me with this bewildering task, I would be supremely grateful. :)

Here's a little tidbit that crosses the line between "outer game" tactics and "inner game" psychology. It's probably most important to guys who are consistently able to get in-depth conversations going with women, but should be relevant to everyone.

A lot of times you'll hear a woman (or even someone in her group) say something you disagree with. It could even be something that is blatantly wrong. Last weekend a woman told me that the U.S. government under Bill Clinton left the U.S. with the largest deficit in its history. Most educated Americans would know that this is probably not true.

But so what?

I'm not part of the U.S. Treasury Department Accuracy Enforcement Committee. I was out to have fun. Yes, she had silly ideas. If she were my girlfriend, I might tease her about this and send her a link to the U.S. Treasury's website. Otherwise, who cares? Let it go, and enjoy the moment.

If you argue with someone over a little point, you are subcommunicating that this is something deeply important to you, that you always have to be right, and that you probably don't have good social intuition.

You'll also lose control of the frame of your interaction with her, and hopefully by now, you realize that if you don't have some control over the frame, you're not likely to get the girl.

Women are often attracted to men with wealth, status, and confidence. In fact, these are three of the eight attraction triggers explained in Magic Bullets (see Chapter 3 (Female Psychology) and Chapter 7).

Now, how does a man with wealth, status, and confidence act? Does he argue with strangers about things he knows to be right? If you met Richard Branson or Brad Pitt at a party and you said that there has never been a man on the moon, do you think they'd care? They'd probably say "oh, that's interesting" and move on. Do they care that you have strange ideas? Practice having that kind of reaction.

Notice, by the way, that the hypothetical Richard Branson or Brad Pitt controls the frame with a response like "oh, that's interesting." It subcommunicates that you are trying to convince them of something. They control the frame, and you are operating within it. What you're talking about is clearly more important to you than it is to them, which subcommunicates that the whole interaction is more important to you than it is to them.

When you meet a woman you don't know, focus on what's important to you, and what you want her to perceive as being important to you. If you are having fun and making a connection, that says one thing about you. If you are arguing with her about some factual trivia, that says something else.

Frame Control is Crucially Important

Even though I'm skating over this pretty quickly, these are crucial issues. In fact, I'd agree with those who have said that this is probably the single most important subject in dating science. If you don't feel completely confident around issues of framing, frame control, and subcommunication, you should make this one of your top priorities for your game. It's a big focus in how we structure our bootcamps now as well.

Change her mood, not her mind

On a related note, you will never seduce a woman with facts and logic. The only reason I was even talking about politics with this person was because I was more interested in the topic (you don’t meet a lot of very conservative right-wing people where I live) than I was in seducing her. That didn't stop me from making out with her later, so that's perhaps not the best example.

Actually, it is, in a way, since it illustrates the theme of changing her mood, not her mind. After a too-intellectual conversation for the venue we were at, I became a bit more interested in her. To get her attracted to me, I led the conversation to an emotional level. Instead of talking about politics, I made her laugh, I teased her, I told fantastic stories and I listened to hers. Then I used the "almost kiss" (one of the four major kiss moves described in Chapter 17 (Kissing) of Magic Bullets). She didn't even let me finish the routine before our lips touched.

Being able to move an intellectual conversation to an emotional one is important. I personally never understood this until a few years ago. I'm a bright guy, and when I was younger, one way I tried to interest women was by showing off my intelligence. This didn't work especially well. Here are some things to keep in mind:

• If you're an intelligent guy, women will perceive this no matter what you do.
• Being "too intelligent" or "book-smart" is actually a turnoff for a significant number of women (not all, probably not even most, but still a lot).
• If you're focused on "proving" your intelligence, it can get in the way of demonstrating some of the eight primary attraction switches.

Yes, many women do look for intelligent men. Those women will find you, whether or not you're explaining Fermat's last theorem.

Where Oh where does this fit in the great alpha/beta debate....?

My neighborhood [strange how that term is drifting into dated obsolescence] is oozing with the best of the best.... the smartest, best connected kids who were accepted at the best schools, moved to New York and obtained jobs at the most lucrative, prestigious financial, legal, real estate, etc. firms....

So, you would naturally assume with all that societal alpha positioning, the credentials, the social connections... the political mojo... everything that counts for something in the great competitive brouhaha....

That maybe you would see real, identifiable, adult male men who dressed, carried themselves, spoke like, had personal values and self images of solid high quality American males ? You WOULD tend to think that.... one assumes...

But nooooooooo..... what HAS happened to our society, our ways of defining maleness ? Got me. I don't have a freaking clue...

What do I see every time I'm in an enclosed area with these fine specimens, like say the Starbucks on Hudson street in the West Village.... ?

Ummmmm..... I see clowns. I see 17 year old boys going on 35, strange taste affectations that hint at Brooklyn by way of Rikers Island, a little pimp roll in the walk, speaking the HIDEOUS "urban moron patois", rich white idiots that are trying to pull off homeboy on one hand while playing with corporate status marker semiotics on the other.... listening to these guys talk on their cells is torture, the total, and I do mean total lack of irony, wit, metaphor, analogy, variation in pitch or rhythm of speech... they all sound like text-2-speech synthesizers... before they got text-2-speech working right... they walk like, well, like total dorks.... there's a kind of dorkism that you have to work at, a deliberately desexualized, pussywhipped, slumpy dicklessness like these guys don't even know how to have sexual fantasies... and if they do, you know deep down in your heart that they're pathetic sexual fantasies....

The sick thing is that the last guy I talked to who you would actually take seriously AS an adult male is a sociopathic gay hustler with Chinese tatooed down his neck named Tony who'se done hard time for some bad thing I'd rather not know about.... Tony is, frankly, a guy you'd go out of your way to avoid... so we're not recommending Tony as a perfect role model or anything... but, Tony radiates something lost, damaged, or destroyed in the new generation of Manginae... he's a real guy who has survived real stuff.... there's no wondering about where Tony is at, you take one look and you KNOW where Tony is at... clears things up real quick...

Now these manginas, you don't have a clue about what, if anything, they believe in, what goes through their minds, why you would want to talk to one of them or know one of them... they're like modular identities, you could switch one out with another one and nobody would know the difference... they're like standardized consciousness, everything interesting, poetic, or unpredictable totally socialized out of them by the time they're 8 years old....

They've been raised in a time where education means knowing how to follow instructions, when any exhibition of a real personality under all that programming is defined away as "disruptive", when talking back to authority is considered a serious infraction that WILL become part of your permanent record, where "going with the flow" is the only thing they've ever known how to do....

No wonder women secretly have contempt for them.

Hey anyone else from AZ?

I came across this post and thought it would be helpful to everyone here. Ever wonder why the top product here is called A or ALPHA 314. What does ALPHA REALLY MEAN? That question is asked OVER AND OVER again here in some form or another........

While 1000's of posts have been written about here, I think this picture (and written description) PERFECTLY depicts it:

Alpha Male Vs Beta Male Citizen Renegade

WHEN IT HITS THE FAN: YOU FORGOT HER BIRTHDAY.

Apologizing profusely. That’s option number one. Some say, it’s the only option.

Then I heard this suggestion: “Tell her, that you knew her birthday was on Thursday but that you wanted to take her out on Saturday."

Any other options/suggestions?

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Just wondering how many of you either have a wingman/woman with you when you go out or don't have one. If you can post why you either have one or why you don't that will make this little research much better. :D

Hey

So I'm pretty new here and everyone's been great welcoming me in. I don't really have much experience with the pheromones yet, but I think there are a few tips that should go noticed. Especially for the younger guys.

• Don't drink! You drink and you impair your game. It's a rough world out there, you need to be at your best to get the breast ;) (couldn't think of anything else that rhymed with best, haha)
• Be confident! You are you, there are things that you may want to change and can. But you need to be confident in who you are.
• Don't be scared of rejection. This one was the biggest hurdle for me and still is. Just got to grow some cojones and go in with no regrets.
• Have a wingman. This isn't really a set in stone rule, but it generally helps when you do. I do mean man in wingman. Not one of your friends who is a girl!
• Probably the most important thing is LISTEN to her when she's talking!! I can't emphasize this enough, there are so many times that I see a guy just blanking out on a girl. Now some guys can get away with this and I say more power to you. But for those of us who actually have to try to get a date you need to follow that rule.
• Don't overtalk her. What I mean is make it so that she is doing most of the talking. Talk about something that interests her. Not about that video game you bought last week or that awesome muscle car show coming up. (note: those topics may be appropriate for some girls)
• edited: Pickup girls on days other than friday and saturday night. It makes it easier since you don't have as much competition because most women are being hit on during those times of the week.

I'm sure there are a ton more things that I forgot to mention. Well hope this helps out. Happy hunting!

Anyone experience their New Warrior Training?
I'm pretty much sold on going either in September or their December weekend warrior training.

If you have had the experience, I would love to hear your thoughts.

Thanks

Anyone here live in North and South Cali

I was looking into San Diego, LA, or Bay area for work.

I have an option to relocate.

Any opinions?

Before you go out

1. The “Game” begins as soon as you leave the house. Women notice you before you approach them. They should always see you having fun, being social, and looking good. (Going out with fun people, good wingmen, and to places you like helps with this). If you’ve been circling around, acting nervous, standing alone, you’ll need to have the skills of a Future or a Jeremy Soul to get the girl once you approach. Love Systems is about making things easier, not harder.

2. Dress in a way that is fashionable and expresses your identity. Most women see fashion as self-expression. So how do you want her to see you? Dress that way. You can’t avoid this – if you dress to blend in, she’ll just think of you as the kind of guy who wants to blend in. There are some great tips in the fashion section of these Forums and a how-to guide with before and after pictures in the Magic Bullets Handbook.


You see a beautiful woman…

3. Move your feet. If you get the eyes-feet reflex going (i.e., see a hot girl, start walking over to the hot girl), everything else will – eventually – take care of itself. Get this down until it’s automatic. The longer you delay an approach, the harder it will be. Don’t skip this.

4. Memorize five good openers (opening lines) so you always have one ready to go. If you don’t have this, you’ll often stumble the beginning of the conversation or even talk yourself out of approaching in the first place. If you don’t have a set of good “go-to” openers that you know work, grab some from the Routines Manual. Or create your own.

The first few seconds...

5. Body language – this is a massive topic and great body language can almost pick up a girl all by itself. Fundamentals for the first few minutes include eye contact, shoulders back and relaxed, hands calm and not in your pockets, stand up straight (don’t fidget), head straight (not tilted). Stand like you would if you owned the world.

6. Speak up! Love Systems has trained tens of thousands of men in person over the last 7 years. Almost all of them started off speaking too softly when approaching women. Especially at bars and clubs, she must hear you clearly the first time and it must cut across other conversations, the music, etc. Also, use your “chest voice” (Google it) and not your “head voice”.

7. Don’t “milk” the opener. Whatever you said when you came over to talk to her, switch off that topic after a minute. That’s crucial. You want her to see you as an attractive, interesting man, not as “the guy I talked to about such-and-such”.


Getting into the conversation…

8. Be FUN. Don’t be too serious or take yourself or the conversation too seriously. If you look like you’re having fun and enjoying yourself, she will have fun too. Fun is contagious…

9. ..but don’t be a dancing monkey.. You’re not trying to become her personal clown or court jester. Have fun and be fun, but don’t try to entertain.

10. Some things that are great for attraction and are also fun include storytelling, teasing, and role plays. It’s OK if you prefer one or two of these - each of these techniques has its own skill set. I do a lot of storytelling, some teasing, and a rare role play. Braddock (to choose one example) does the opposite. Go with what works for you.

11. Avoid “interviews”. Don’t ask her too many questions. A question or two shows some interest in who she is as a person, but more than that is what every guy does; it’s boring and a turnoff. It’s also a waste – asking her a question about herself does nothing to attract her or let her get to know your good qualities. Instead, make statements. E.g., instead of asking where she’s from, make a guess. Or tell her where you’re from and she’ll do the same.

12. Similarly, don’t play tourist in her life. So you find out she’s a stewardess/porn star/nuclear scientist and you’re curious to know more. Save it. If she’s attracted to you, you’ll have all the time in the world to ask whatever you want.

13. NEVER leave a conversation because you “run out of things to say”. Force yourself to stay. Your brain will learn, if it is forced to, how to improvise. Or use one of the hundreds of proven “things to say” (called routines). Be strict with yourself on this.


Making attraction STICK

Some guys think of attraction as something that takes a long time but once you got it, it’s permanent. That’s doubly wrong. Women feel attracted to men all the time, and it doesn’t take long – within minutes of beginning a conversation. But if you don’t do anything to solidify or lock in that attraction, it goes away as quickly as it came.

14. Qualification is the best way to keep her attracted. By making her work a bit for you and by leading the conversation to a place where you and her admit that you are interested in each other, you’re not some fleeting guy…you’re a guy she needs more of.

15. Phone numbers are not attraction. Getting a phone number does not mean she is attracted to you. Getting a phone number before she is attracted to you is next to useless. Read the Ultimate Guide to Phone and Text Game if you’re a phone number + dates guy instead of a One Night Stand guy.

Obviously, this is only scratching the surface. Attraction takes up several chapters of the Magic Bullets Handbook, most of the routines in the Routines Manual 1 and Routines Manual 2 are attraction routines, and the interview series goes through the nuts and bolts of a bunch of attraction techniques so you can go over “how to” do them all. But nothing about attraction will ever contradict these 15 Laws, no matter how advanced you are.

If you ever break any of these 15, print out the list, carry them in your wallet, review them until they are instinctive and you don’t even need to think about them any more.

-Nick Savoy

Are you a joker? A teaser? A clown? Bonding Style? Put-down others ? Laughing at life humor? other?

In personality, a sense of humor is rated as very important. We can identify it in others. It’s a form of communication and we all use it differently.


“I engage in witty banter and generally try to lighten the mood of my setting. With me its about reducing the tension in situations that deed necessary and being able to laugh at myself when the moment calls for it."... The Bonding Style:)


MVKBUGATTI

I have a question / comment about the rep system. I think we should make it non anonymous. I feel that if a person give you reps you should be able to thank them, and if the neg rep you one could find out why.

I bring this up because it seems some people have the same problem from the same user, when it comes to neg repping. I have found out if this user disagrees with you findings or what you testing he or she will take away the rep you have rightfully earned. The fact that they don’t post what they actually think and hide behind the anonymity of a rep system is childish at best.

I feel that the whole idea behind this forum is to expressed ideas and experiment on new mixes to share that knowledge with the general populist. How can someone try to experiment on new mixes, or express an opinion that is unpopular when every time they do they get neg repped for it?

I think this is a way that we could allow the information of this forum and the experimentation of its products to be more freely expressed.

What are men's issues? Watch this short flash video to get a beginning idea. Societal forces like chivalry, misandry and the onerous male sex role of provide and protect have been having the unfortunate consequence of obscuring the needs of men. This short video will give you an introductory glimpse of some men's issues.

YouTube- Men's Issues




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YouTube- A Prayer for Joe Bob



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Eh, price is too high maybe?

YouTube- Sex Differences: Why Won't Men Commit?



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Falsely accuse one, get his ass thrown in jail, ruin his life and get paid for it.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnew...sland.html

Getting your inner game right, and becoming congruent with the vibe you are emanating using your pheromones is such an important factor in the attraction process, that without question, if you don't fix what is broken within you, it doesn't matter what super duper mix you come up with, you may land that first date, but you won't get a call back. Been there, done that.

Life is not like the movies in that you're a normal guy one day, then the next you're presented with this life changing decision that makes you become the man you need to be to land the perfect woman.

In fact, life and who you are, is a representation of many small decisions you have made over your lifetime. I at one time weighed 340 pounds, and as I explained to my nieces *who I raised and took care of for 18 years* that I didn't just wake up one day fat. It was the culmination of many days of making bad choices in terms of food, and exercise, or lack thereof.

My point is, there are many small things in your life that are occurring, that affect your inner game, and in turn affect your ability to attract the woman of your dreams. These things will sound petty, but add them all together and you will see, at least to a woman, these things are signs of a much larger problem.

Now what made me think of this post, was my making a silly comment on Facebook when I posted in my status how wearing a new pair of underwear can boost confidence....so here goes.

A list of small things that can help improve your inner game.

1. New / clean underwear - Like the scout motto says, "always be prepared." I don't care if you are going out gaming, to church, or just to get a Sunday paper at the store. Always have on a clean pair of underwear. Imagine if you're out and you have one of those moments where you meet someone, and it continuously leads to more, where next thing you know, you're talking about heading back to your place and making the beast with two backs and all of a sudden you think about having that old, tore up pair of underwear on. This goes for socks too. Of course this may not stop you, especially if you're a young horn dog, but it can have a subtle impact on your psyche as you do meet someone new, or come across someone you've been trying to hook up with. It's just another small chink in your confidence that can be remedied by spending $20-$40 a month.
2. Clean room / Car - Once again, the logic is that if you've got a pig sty of a room or car to take a lady back to, you may be hesitant, or reluctant to act impulsively. Whether you realize it or not, there is something, somewhere playing in your head, knocking your confidence down another notch. Not to mention, a high quality girl / woman may have second thoughts about your value and status if you can't keep certain parts of your life organized.
3. Condoms - Always have one on your person, and of course in your bedroom. If you go out to meet women, and ONS are something you are interested in, and you leave condoms at home, then you've subconsciously set yourself up for failure, as you're not expecting it to happen. And if safe sex is not a concern of yours, dude, this world doesn't need another single mother of a child with an absent father.
4. Dress for success - One of the best statements I read concerning how important looks were to women was, "you don't have to be the best looking guy out there, just be the best looking version of yourself." When I leave the house, I am always dressed in a manner that if I did happen to come across someone I wanted to approach, I wouldn't have thoughts concerning my t-shirt has a coffee stain, or my pants are all wrinkled and hair mussed up. I'm not always dressed up like I'm going out on the town, but if I'm casual, it's a nice enough casual that I feel comfortable and confident knowing I look good for the look.
5. Teeth - If you have yellow stained teeth this can be a real confidence killer. When I was a kid we were doing some stupid stuff with an old beat up car on my step dads farm and as we pulled a Dukes of Hazzard move through a dry creek bed, I fractured my front teeth. For years I would cover my mouth if I laughed or smiled. In fact I tried not to smile for fear that people would see my teeth. When I got them fixed, I started to smile all the damn time. Get some crest white strips. You wear them 2x's a day for 30 mins at a time. I am wearing it right now as I write this, and my teeth are almost as white as the veneers they used to fix my front teeth years ago.
6. Skin - Take care of your skin. Start wearing sun screen so you don't wrinkle prematurely. I've always had great skin, been complimented on it a lot. But even tho' I don't get too much sun exposure, at 43 I'm definitely starting to see signs of laugh lines etc. So I purchased a Deep Wrinkle daily moisturizer with SPF 30. I always get told I look much younger, women have confused me for anywhere from 28-34, but never over 34.
7. Hair - Quit going to supercuts, great clips etc. Find a good stylist and pay the $ for a good quality hair cut. The girl that does my hair is so good, even with a ball cap on, I had a woman walk up to me and say, "You got a great hair cut, I can tell, I'm a stylist and whoever cut your hair did a great job." Women notice this kind of small thing, but knowing my hair looks good makes me feel that much better about myself.
8. Lack sexual confidence / premature ejaculation - There are courses that teach you how to be a better lover as well as teach you how to control your ejaculation. David Deida has an amazing book titled "The Enlightened Sex Manual." Great book on being a better lover. There is also Alex Allman who has the Command and Control program, as well as the Revolutionary Sex program. Another good one is "Two Girls Teach Sex." I just purchased that last one recently, and it has amazing tips on how to help your woman achieve multiple orgasms. Knowing you're armed with this knowledge and have the skills will keep fear of intimacy or feelings of inadequacy from being a sticking point in your game.

These are just a few tips, I'm hoping others add onto them. It all sounds petty, but I guess the important thing I'm trying to impart here is, eliminate all the noise in your head that you can, so you can focus on the truly important things. These are simple things you can easily fix, and as you fix these, and start to see more and more successes in your life, it gives you the confidence to push further and harder on the tougher issues.

Does any one here like news about the environment? Because I just started a blog and was hoping to get a few people to view it.

I'm back and will be on the forums more.


Questions comments please post here.

I finally have a new address and have moved three times in last 4 months...


So yea, job hunting and permanent address established.

Hello, not sure of anyone has seen the new community based site rating site mywot.com but it give this site a bad rating :(

I added my rating to it but to get better rating others would need to do the same.

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Why does it say not to use Turn Up The Heat around children? have some interesting and just plain wrong theories. But what is the real reason? I find it a little comical in a wrong sort of way.